Keeping the love alive is difficult when you're traveling all the time, living out of tiny Airbnbs (or your car! ugh!), especially when you have kids with you. Here's what we do to make sure our relationship is heathy and... ahem... fun. 

It is gear. It is a thing to heat up water. Kind of annoying to set up, but it easily fits in a backpack. Has it's own special fuel, which is kind of annoying because you can't take fuel on a plane and it's hard to find or really expensive in some destinations.  Works quickly, but not great for families because it doesn't boil a ton of water and it's difficult to use with a regular pan (though we have). We bought a big stove, but still use it for tea and coffee. Expensive for it's cons, but overall don't regret. 

We all hate it. But it's a necessary evil.